Category: Dating and Relationships
There are a lot of ways to attract the girls you like. But I'd bet what most guy know about how to attract women may mostly be wrong. That's why most guys whine and complain all the time saying that no girls would ever be interested in them. In this article I would like to show you some ways that you can implement so that you could also attract any women that you like. So let's start.
1. Be a man, not a girl
Most guys I know are wussies. They are not acting like a man. From my experience, this is the main reason why a man fails to have any success in his attempt to attract the girl he likes. If you could be more masculine around women and stop giving compliments to girls that you like as if you are kissing her ass, it is guaranteed that you are going to be successful with women.
2. Confidence is Addictive
Tell you what, in order to become a super attractive guy, you must have a set of highly attractive personalities. In my opinion, there are about 15+ personalities that are attractive to women. But one of the sexiest personalities, or probably the most, is CONFIDENCE. All men who are successful with women exerts a great sense of confidence into the atmosphere. Women also agree that confidence is something they look in a guy. So from now on, you should walk tall, stand big, talk like Mr Bond and act in a way that you are totally in control.
3. Groom Yourself
Girls admit this. By grooming(not over grooming) is a sign that you are taking good care of yourself. So, groom yourself neatly where ever and whenever you go. Cut your nails, style your hair, zap those zits, and make sure you smell good. By doing this, you are basically letting the girls know you are in control of yourself, which is a very sexy thing to them. Think about the edge you are going to have over that guy who also wants to attract the same girl you like, with smelly body odor, messy hair, oily skin and dirty outfits. By grooming yourself, you are also improving your self-esteem and confidence because you are much more comfortable with yourself.
4. Be Unique
If you were to attract women, you would need to make sure you stand out among the crowd of men who are also going for the same women. So it is vital for you to be unique to the girls around you. You can do this by learning and doing something really cool or things that most men do not do. Things such as playing musical instruments are really cool. Adventurous hobbies are attractive to women. Other good examples include horoscope, handwriting analysis, and cooking. Find a set of hobbies that are unique but not freaky. And you stand more chance to make the women you like think that you are attractive.
I have shown you four ways to attract girls that you can immediately use to improve your love life with women. Now, your newly learned knowledge might not be enough for you to attract any women that you like. In this case, I highly suggest you to get the education you need so that you can start attracting more women.
Raaj.
Hey baby, my name is Perro... Hot Perro.
Oi, I didn't come up with this 5th way. lol.
Raaj.
Very well written Raajy and nice thoughts! Here are my comments.
1.
I'm not sure what you mean by being more masculine. If you mean that men ought to think it's shameful or wrong to cry or show any emotions or that they have to start with the shivelry (opening doors, pulling out chairs etc.) then I'm not for it. On the other hand, a man who cries all the time is annoying, as is anyone else like that in my opinion. I don't see a problem with compliments where appropriate, but if you're just using them to get into a woman's pants, just say it for goodness sakes. I'm also exasperated by the shy types who would really like to perhaps maybe ask you for a cup of coffee, that is if you don't mind, if you'd ever consider them.
2.
I totally agree and this is how I myself act. People who don't have confidence get on my nerves. Sure, there are times when it's understandable, but if you never ask, you'll never know.
3.
Absolutely. Grooming is essential, though I personally don't care if a man's hair is styled or not. But clean clothes (unless you're coming home from work at an outdoor job or are a gardener or something) are essential. As for smell, I think it goes without saying that a man who smells is unattractive. Sorry, but same with growing bushes under your arms and in your pubic region.
4.
A man who can play the bouzouki (particularly trichordo) or the baglama would definitely stand a chance with me, even more so if he cooked and was interested in divination. But that combination is very rare. I've got a great cook and musician in one so am happy. *smile*
I think honesty, respect and openness are also some huge ones. A man who can tell it like it is, who can respect me and who isn't afraid to talk about anything is truly rare and wonderful. I know because I've got one and have met many others who lack these qualities.
conventional modern wisdom, or at least that of the 1980s, was for being high on compliments. Not kiss-ass, but high on compliments. Now I begin to wonder, as time passes. I'm not looking: I've been married for 17 years but compliments / flowers aren't all they're cracked up to be is all. My opinion is the women who don't get them complain because they don't, and those who do get them complain because they say they get too many. Just do whatever's seeming normal without reaching. But I have serious doubts about many of the things we were tought as young men. I think the current generation has a better chance.
If a man were to get me flowers, I'd much prefer wild ones that he picked or a plant. The latter has far less of a chance of dying prematurely and makes alot more sense to me for some reason. Maybe, it's their permenance. I also have nothing against fake plants/flowers as those last for years, maybe even decades. I really shouldn't talk about compliments, since I'm always telling my man how much I love him and how amazing he is and I'm sure that I overdo it. But I don't do it to kiss ass or to impress him. I just can't help myself sometimes and that's the honest truth.
I try to be manly by making stone axes, splitting open bones and eating the maro out of them, and waring bare skins. I'm still single though I don't know why.
you still putting the fluid in the wrong place man. eyes are not the perfect place for that. that's the reason... hmmm?
Raaj
Eleni, I like your post...I'm the same way I'm confident my self, if he wines to much or mention his mom in a she takes control way...he's out the door, smelling good and such yes he have too, but some men take it over where it's suppose to be and as for cooking, yes he should be able to do that and as long as he isn't sitting on his ass all day would make me happy.